I met a beautiful girl last night. My God, she was perfect. Tall, slender, beautiful face, perfect smile. She was smart and stylish. She spoke perfect English. And I don’t have her number.
I jumped. I’ll give you some advice so you don’t make that mistake. First of all, you need to establish some kind of connection with the girl before you ask for her number. You will not only identify the cute girl across the room, your cold approach and ask for her number. It turns out to be strange, scary and desperate. Even though she likes you, she wants to know it before she becomes comfortable enough to exchange numbers. My a friend used this»shotgun»one night, it was a lot of fun. When the club closed, she walked through the crowd outside, holding her iPhone. He just asked a nice girl to see her number. It was just a drunken experience, and we all had a good laugh watching the show. Actually, it gets a few numbers this way, but I would never recommend trying. The reason is that any girl who spreads her act will be immediately of poor quality and perspective. I mean, she probably gives herself to so many guys that I can’t even remember who you are when she texts. If you connect with a girl before you get her number, she will most likely remember you and respond to your message. You must remember something about girls. Most of them are unstable creatures. A sexy girl has SACCO options, and guys constantly accost them. She rarely bothers answering other people’s text messages when she has dozens and dozens of Boyfriends they try to talk to her more gently every day. You must be different from the crowd. When I say»connect»with the first girl, I don’t mean sharing life stories and dreams for the future, just having a light conversation is good. Your goal here is to create comfort with her and go on a date with a relaxing, fun guy who will spend time with her. There is no need to go up on the seduction stage or even ask her out on a date. I don’t want to go into the initial approach and pick up the lines here, this post is just to get your phone number, but, sign up for more Dating tips because I have a lot of good things on the way. Try contacting her in the General interest. If she’s at the club, you can tell she was talking about a great party she went to last night. Or ask her if she went to the concert last week. If she’s at the gym, ask if she’s running the local marathon next month. If she’s in a restaurant, ask her, does she know how to cook? Tell her that she took Thai cooking lessons when she was traveling to Chiang Mai. He leads an interesting conversation not only about his interests, but also about how fun and interesting his life is going. Learn to read your body language. If she looks like she’s not having fun, or wants to dump you again. Remember, you can’t always win. But if she is smiling and enjoying the conversation, then accidentally pick up the phone and tell me what your phone number is, I would like the text to be a little bit. This should be a natural part of the conversation. Don’t stop at the awkward pause and tell me. So I can get your phone number. Depending on the country you are in, people use different chat apps and ways to stay connected. Instead of your phone number, I usually ask for your line ID, Viber, email, etc. I prefer to use a chat app on a phone number or on Facebook, but I want to go into more detail than in a more personal way later date. Okay, this is where I fucked last night, I didn’t follow my rule. Make sure that the girl gets her phone number as soon as possible. If you see an opening to ask, then ask. This has been my downfall many times, and last night was a great example. I’ve been seeing this girl for a few weeks now. She’s always with the same group of people and she has a boyfriend, so When I saw her alone in a bar, I started talking to her. It turned out that she was very nice and hit him from the outside. She said that she had recently broken up with her man and was single again. We were alone and talked for a few minutes, and I didn’t ask her for the number in my head, I thought. Well, I’ll ask you later what the hurry is. Well, all of a sudden your ten friends showed up and sat down with us at the bar. Your friends have started talking in your ear. Then people started talking to me. Some of the guys were your ex-Boyfriends, friends from Long Short Story, my perfect opportunity to ask. She was surrounded by friends. We were all in a large group, and I didn’t want to awkwardly interrupt the conversation to ask for her phone number. Forget it, that’s the main lesson. Never think about yourself, okay, ask for your number later.
Then we can say
Anything can happen, and if You see an opportunity, then you need to act NOW. This applies to everything in life. Asking for a girl’s phone number in front of her friends is normal. However, when dealing with the conservative cultures of foreign girls, you often worry about their image. In this example, everyone is Vietnamese, and it’s not a girls bar, although she loves me, she can feel weird giving her number to some foreigner to everyone she’s looking for. Just go with your intuition in these scenarios. I decided that this was not a good time. If you can’t get a number soon, don’t worry. I often ask a girl a question about the number to end the conversation. Mostly out of necessity, because I have to go. After a brief conversation, she said says to me,»Hey, I’m sorry, I have to go.»I would like to continue this conversation another time. What’s your number, so I can text her later.»Often busy is a good thing.»Even though I’m staying at the bar, I say,»Okay, it was nice talking to you, but now I need to get back to my friends. Let’s change the numbers much faster first.»It depends on what you want to do.»Maybe I’ll say,»Oh, I’m sorry if I like to stay and chat, but I’m going to read books for blind children in an orphanage.»We’ll talk on Facebook later.»Just be creative with it. The last piece of advice is to be bold. In fact, if you like a girl, just ask her out on a date. This is the worst thing that can happen. It is she who will say»NO AND», whatever. She’ll find someone else. Hot young ass SAKO is all over the planet. Don’t hang up on the girl. I know what it was like when I lived in America, I was managing a game with a girl and emotionally investing money. I always do I wanted to do everything right, and when it didn’t work out, I was very disappointed. I always worked hard and took it personally. Now that I’ve been in Asia for more than a year, my life has changed, I don’t care what happens. If I like a girl, I go to her and start a conversation. If she is not in me, I will go to her and find someone else. I never give a second opinion. Dipping into these situations without worrying about the outcome helped my game a lot. Instead of psychoanalyzing myself and getting close to a hot girl like a scared rabbit, I calmly approach any group of girls and start a conversation. I usually get a smile and interest from the group. When you stop worrying so much about the outcome, you can relax and enjoy the conversation instead of thinking about your next step or»game If you’re nervous, it means you’re thinking about yourself.
Stop this nonsense
Relax and go with the flow. This is neither life nor death. I hope this will help you. Too often, guys walk out of a club and kick their Asses for not asking for that hot girl’s phone number. All you have to do is have the balls to get close and take advantage of the opportunity, if there is one. Too often boys can’t keep up with the times and ask for a number. This is the worst feeling of trust in me that I know happened last night. Everything was going well with this girl, and I’m sure I would have gotten her number if I’d asked her earlier. I know where she is. I’ll come back tonight and get her number. This isn’t over until I win